Relationships

Stealing Pussy

Fellas I love Y’all I really do. You also know I don’t co-sign your bullshit, I call you on it. Today I’m coming to you from a place of love to check you on some next level fuckery. I’m speaking up now because it has occurred far too often lately. Gentlemen, this stealing pussy has to stop! It’s reckless, it’s damaging and it’s dangerous. Just STOP! Spare me the protests and the righteous indignation because you’ve all done it. Perhaps you didn’t know there was a term for it, but you did it and your ignorance does not excuse you.

Remember that young lady you met? The smart, sexy, funny one that you clicked with immediately? Yeah, her. Think back to the conversations you had with her. The dreams you discussed, the insecurities you shared. She was so easy to talk to! She was mad cool! She was so cool that you told her out of the gate how much you were digging her, how much you were vibing with her. You were honest about not looking to get into anything serious now. She told you she understood and you smiled, feeling like you had hit the PowerBall. She did let you know that she is looking for a committed relationship in the future though, but now she has some work to do on herself. “Perfect!,” you thought. “No reason not to keep kicking it.” You couldn’t have been more wrong.

As time went on it just got better. This woman had your back and she looked you out. She spoke life into you when you felt discouraged. You appreciated her presence and support so much. You even told her that. Yet, while she was looking out for you, speaking life into you and nurturing you, somehow you missed the signs that this woman was falling for you. I call bullshit on that though. You’re an intelligent man, you didn’t miss the signs you chose to ignore them. You pretended not to see the love in her eyes when she looked at you, hear the love in her voice as she encouraged you. Ninja, you aren’t that damn special! That woman loved your stinking ass!

Though you weren’t looking for anything serious you made love to her – the woman who has fallen in love with your dumb ass! What is more serious than sharing your body, opening your soul and exchanging energies with someone? You had sex with her knowing how she felt about you, knowing that you would not give her what she wants – you. That is when you crossed the line, sir. The moment you did that you became a pussy stealer.

To paraphrase a very wise male friend of mine, you don’t have to love a woman to make love to her. Men do it every single day. Now if you choose to make love to a woman you don’t love, knowing she loves you, you damn sure better understand that you can’t enter her body without touching her soul. It’s spiritual rape to fuck someone when you know that you’re not meeting them on an emotionally level playing field. Now that you know better I expect you to do better.

— Jae

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